I am not comfortable doing certain sexual things with my boyfriend but don't know how to talk to him about it because I just think he might go and do it somewhere else. Please help.


It's hard to know exactly how

It's hard to know exactly how to respond, not knowing what your boyfriend wants to do sexually. If the behaviors he wants are normal, but you feel uncomfortable with normal sexual behaviors, then this is probably an issue that you need to address about your own feelings surrounding sex.

If the things he wants to do are abnormal or deviant, then he has the problem and not you. If he does not respect your desire for normal sexual behaviors, and really might go and do it with someone else, then you may be better off without him.

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Dr. Williams

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